Papa's Home - The Foyer Come into this room first to find out the latest information in regards to this forum, frequently asked questions, guidelines, problems, et cetera. We also discuss new ideas here. Your input is welcome!http://papashome.com/list.php?1Sun, 05 Sep 2010 04:15:58 -0500 Phorum 5.2.15a http://papashome.com/read.php?1,2529,2529#msg-2529 Rebuilding (16 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,2529,2529#msg-2529
...so...

please leave me lots of suggestions on what you'd like to be able to do, or to have made easier...or anything you do like about the current system in particular...or whatever. Hey, you guys use Facebook, so you must have some ideas!

(o, btw, I cannot promise that any and every suggestion will make it in...but I love a challenge...)


Thanks!]]> onyx The FoyerFri, 03 Sep 2010 15:46:29 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,2249,2249#msg-2249 Any Old Bush will do! (2 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,2249,2249#msg-2249
Hi Saints

I found this attached 20min sermonette by Major Ian Thomas an English Bible teacher. He preaches the message we have grown to love methinks ie that this Christian life we have, can only be lived by the life of Christ alone, in us. Christ in us, the hope of glory. Also that that life can be lived by "Any Old Bush" ie US......(sling)
I am loving this mans heart and ability to pass on this truth.

I checked it out with Onyx and he suggested I post it on Papa Home. Lets know what you think!
Love and blessings
Eric]]> SkinnyDippinginHisGrace The FoyerTue, 27 Jul 2010 06:50:07 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1852,1852#msg-1852 More server problems (3 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1852,1852#msg-1852 onyx The FoyerMon, 19 Apr 2010 20:15:45 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1715,1715#msg-1715 Updates time (3 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1715,1715#msg-1715admin@papashome.com and let me know what happened.

Odd stuff includes(but is not limited to):
Posts suddenly not Previewing.
Posts disappearing.
Not being notified of replies.]]> onyx The FoyerFri, 26 Mar 2010 21:13:49 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1576,1576#msg-1576 I so miss this place....:( (5 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1576,1576#msg-1576The stuff that has been going on here and still is, is so numerous and extensive I'd have to write a novel. When you say the phrase, "well, it can't get much worse than this", don't say that, cause it's not true! Here is a list of what has been going on, my parents, husbands parents-health issues and needing a little more help, both sets do not live close. Children-marriage, jobs, money, all three of them live at least an hour or more from us. Grandchildren, illness and their parents really don't need to miss work. Then there has been the crazy weather here. We actually were without electricity for 2 weeks and were using a generator, as was my parents, that was a very hectic 2 weeks and expensive. In just the past week, I was on my way to doctor, just a annual check up, this is about a 40 minute drive and on my way, a young lady called me and said she was told I took in birds, "uh, okay?", she had a cockatiel that her small sons were pulling the feathers out, she had taken the bird when another friend was shipped out but she needed to find a good home for her, (the bird was not a her, it was a he) I arranged to meet her after my appointment, I brought home another bird that can't fly because he's missing so many feathers and kept 2 grands, ran to husbands parents home to run some errands for them because on the same day as my appointment, my mother in law was getting out of the hospital. Oh, my doctor said my health was really good, I just had an Urinary tract infection, and I did not even know...weird.
But mostly I miss all you guys! I think of this place so much, I don't even have time to be writing right now and have been interrupted 4 times. I fall asleep with my iPod at night, I just need to hear what I so very badly miss, I miss interacting with others that see and believe like I do.
So, I guess I just don't want you to think I've abandoned this place or anyone here. Soon, maybe things will calm down a little, and I'll have more time for myself. But until then, I pray for you, I think of you and may Father's love bless you every day.]]> RainFields The FoyerMon, 08 Mar 2010 16:07:03 -0600 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1171,1171#msg-1171 Us and Them? (3 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,1171,1171#msg-1171about. We are merely another branch on the vine, and so don't need to concern ourselves with comparisons, as we all descend from the same root; Jesus the Messiah.

In saying that, do feel free to vent your spleen, as this is a place of safety to do so. Currently only the Prayer Closet is out of bounds to non-registered members. If you'd like another room as well, eg The Lavatory (you know what that's for!), then vote here (laugh) - seriously; I want to know!

If you think that your brother or sister's post can be taken offensively in this manner, please PM them for clarification. Peace on earth and goodwill to all men!

In necessariis unitas, (in essentials unity),
In dubiis libertas, (in doubtful things liberty),
In omnibus autem caritas. (but in all things love).]]> onyx The FoyerMon, 21 Dec 2009 11:33:10 -0600 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,967,967#msg-967 Security (no replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,967,967#msg-967
Email addresses are not shared by default publicly, so there should be no need for further anonymity unless there is a lack of honest transparency that would not make for healthy community. I am sure that you agree that we need to protect that right to honesty and loving communication.

I am sorry if this has affected you directly. Please email me : admin@papashome.com if you have any questions.]]> onyx The FoyerMon, 07 Dec 2009 14:52:33 -0600 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,962,962#msg-962 December Newsletter (no replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,962,962#msg-962
Dear Reader,

Here we are in December...why is it that as we age the years go faster?? Papa's Home has grown quickly over the past month; we now have over 20 active members. That's a big family! And a neat family too. I love you all.

My own children are all excited about the arrival of Christmas; every day my 4yo boys ask, "How long 'til christmas?" Yet we are attempting to downplay and divert the whole christmas issue, as it is so commercialised here it's farcical. But due to the rest of the world stopping, we will be seeing family, and spending some time with them, so I will be off the air for a while.

In this newsletter I wanted to open up the chance for another member to have their say. CShell has graciously provided a post on the subject of Christmas; here: [papashome.com] for you to comment on.

Here is a teaser:

"I'm not putting up my Christmas tree this year. It's the first time in my life. Having been raised in a family that goes all out for Christmas (decorating inside and out, playing Christmas songs continually, baking, buying, etc.), I feel disloyal to my heritage. Kind of like when I left the institutional church.

And like I did when I left the church, I need to dismantle my beliefs, examine things I've always taken for granted, get dis-illusioned….about Christmas. I'd like to share some of the things I'm thinking, and would love to know the things you're thinking.

Christmas time in my part of the world comes in the darkest, dreariest time of year. Daylight, sunshine, color and beauty are in short supply. But when I'd put up my tree, with its hundreds of lights and ornaments treasured for 40 years, it was like I was pushing back the darkness for awhile, warding it off. Is that…healthy? Are there some harmless, possibly beneficial ways to escape reality?"
More at [papashome.com]

What are you doing this Christmas? How about adopting a mouse? [papashome.com]
Or a cockatiel? [papashome.com]

And don't forget to list your prayer requests in the Prayer Closet; [papashome.com]

I would also like to take this opportunity to address the few members who have signed up, but not yet posted...please don't be shy, folks! We don't bite! In fact we may even have some (virtual) fried Oreo cookies here for you...but you have to find them :D

Again, if you are having issues understanding how the forum works, or unsure about something, you can email me at: admin@papashome.com

Peace, love and joy in Christ Jesus!

Love
Onyx]]> onyx The FoyerMon, 07 Dec 2009 05:20:12 -0600 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,923,923#msg-923 Glossary (9 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,923,923#msg-923
Please add to the list if you can! It would be nice not to have our own language...but it's easier sometimes ;)

OOTB = Out Of The Box; outside traditional religion's four walls - could be in thought, if not actions
ITB = In The Box; see above
PH = Papa's Home !!!
TGJ = The God Journey
BTW = By The Way
TBH = To Be Honest (well shouldn't you be honest anyhow?)
OTOH = On The Other Hand
YMMV = Your Mileage May Vary]]> onyx The FoyerSun, 06 Dec 2009 16:51:31 -0600 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,357,357#msg-357 Email Newsletter (1 reply)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,357,357#msg-357
Copy here:
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Papa's Home Newsletter
Dear onyx,

Wow, the first month in Papa's Home has flown by so quickly! And I want to thank you all for registering, and joining in the discussion, and telling others about Papa's Home. We have a lot of interesting topics and fun stuff; everything from Mamma Mia to Piano steps on Youtube, Dismantling Belief to Worshipping Papa!

Thanks for the encouraging comments we have already received! It's appreciated hugely. :D

If you have any constructive criticism please say so! You can talk to CShell, Michael, or me(onyx)... we are the admin team. (I look after the back-end technical stuff too.)

We would really like to get to know you better too, so when you feel okay with sharing, drop into The Lounge, and add a post to the thread "Your Story", or "Introductions", or just start a new topic, and call it "onyx's Story" for instance.

The (rudimentary) User's Guide in the Foyer is there to give you some clues if you are new to forum usage. Otherwise, you can send me an email, or ask in the forum if you are unsure about something.

Have you thought about adding an Avatar to your posts? An avatar is a small picture that you choose to represent you. This can be uploaded from your computer to Papa's Home, by going into Control Centre, Avatar, and selecting a small image from your computer using browse. If you have an image in mind, but need help resizing it, just ask.

We have had a few technical difficulties with our web server in the past month, that has meant outage, missing emails, and missing posts...but that should be all sorted now. Thanks for your patience and prayers!

User's Guide: [papashome.com]
Avatar: [papashome.com]
Email: admin@papashome.com

Blessings in Christ Jesus!

Love
Onyx
]]> onyx The FoyerFri, 30 Oct 2009 13:27:19 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,337,337#msg-337 Apologies (no replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,337,337#msg-337
my humble apologies for any inconvenience caused!

Love
Onyx]]> onyx The FoyerThu, 15 Oct 2009 03:11:32 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,88,88#msg-88 Users Guide (doh) (3 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,88,88#msg-88============================
Version 0.1 Sept 2009

Firstly you need to create a New Profile here, in order to participate. Please READ and AGREE to abide by our "House Rules" -- they are to keep your experience here an enjoyable one.

The registration system uses a Spam - CAPTCHA method to stop automated sign-ups, then sends you a registration confirmation email. If you are having problems getting through this process, please email us: admin@papashome.com, so we can manually create your account. Once your registration is confirmed, you may use the Log-In link (at top of page) to access Papa's Home. We recommend that you don't ask your web browser to save your username and password if anyone else is likely to use that computer.

When you have logged in the links at the top of the page will change slightly. You will have "Log Out" 1, "Control Centre" 2, "Private Messages" 3, and "House Rules" 4.

Use the Control Centre link to access your account settings, where you can set up your privacy options, your user Avatar (little picture that you can upload to represent you), your email address, and so on.

The JUMP MENU 5 brings up the following:

This is a quick method of getting between the rooms. Check out RECENT MESSAGES at the bottom of the menu too; it brings up a list of the last messages (in public) for you to catch up on the latest. Anything you haven't read is marked with a RED FLAG.

The Search fields are divided into two functions; a Papa's Home search 6 at the top, with an Advanced link underneath to give you more search options; and Bible search 7 - to give you quick access to searching for scripture.

The Announcements area 8 helps you to keep up with news for Papa's Home.


The Forums area 9 lists all of the rooms in Papa's Home, where you can leave messages, and reply to other's messages.

Next: Posting
]]> onyx The FoyerTue, 01 Jun 2010 09:29:00 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,58,58#msg-58 Smileys(soapbox) (1 reply)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,58,58#msg-58
Try to use them sparingly if you have a slow PC, because they use a lot of CPU power (hammerpc), especially when the Smiley selector is open.

When you are posting, there is a Smiley selector on the right, above, and beside the Subject field.
The subject field is a smaller subset of the main smileys.
A keyboard-only method of typing smileys is included below. This is faster if your PC is sluggish.

More smileys can be added to the site, or some taken away if they are not used much.(snotted)

To get a smiley that is not supplied here, head to http://onyx.whatthetux.com. Copy the text underneath the smiley you want. Come back here, and click the Image button in the middle above. Paste the text for the smiley location. This method will not work for Subject fields.

If you find a great smiley you think should be on Papa's Home, then please reply here, and put that smiley in your post.

(gnite)]]> onyx The FoyerMon, 21 Sep 2009 07:50:09 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,33,33#msg-33 Blogs (6 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,33,33#msg-33
The status quo pros:

  1. The blogger is free to create their own rant zone without interference
  2. The site is a lot tidier without replies
  3. A train of thought / a "series" can be followed, allowing the blogger to articulate something they have been studying

The status quo cons:

  1. The blogger is free to create their own rant zone without interference- can be lonely too!
  2. Replies are part of being community
  3. If I have an agenda to push, you can bet I will try to use this method (Although there is no certainty that anyone will read my blog nor buy into whatever agenda I am peddling!)
  4. Users who want to reply to it are hampered in their efforts to do so, by the format of having to copy/paste into another forum area.
  5. In replying to the blog, there is nothing to link the two together, so that a casual observer knows what the community thinks of the blog posting. This makes it appear as though the community endorses the blog posting wholeheartedly, barring one or two dissident voices. That could be dangerous and divisive.
  6. Does being the owner of a blog here make you somehow elite? Or at least appear that way to others? In a really small community it would be possible to give everyone a blog, but as the site grows, that becomes really unwieldy and hard to maintain.

IF we let people comment on blogs, then there is actually not a whole lot of point having them- they are just the same as a forum, except that they are named differently. It then enables a user to dominate the blog with all of their postings (unless the blog owner gets tough with moderation)...which dilutes the purpose further.


So what thinketh thou? Hehe at least you can reply to this right now, before I turn it into a BLOG :P]]> onyx The FoyerWed, 23 Sep 2009 19:30:43 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,21,21#msg-21 Spirit Storming Papa's Home (1 reply)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,21,21#msg-21
Now we are SpiritStorming (brainstorming) the nature and needs of this place...

Cool? Let's start with a list of descriptives :

encouraging
comfortable
safe
loving
stretching
unique

family friendly -- "if your Grandma or your 10 year old daughter was reading it..."
open -- " open to you, your ideas, your journey with God...not necessarily agreeing with them!"
responsible -- "prepared to do what seems right in any given situation" ...which leads to
confrontational / discipline -- "if necessary, confrontation in love bringing discipline will occur. "
private -- "your data is yours alone, we will do the utmost to ensure it is never used for nefarious purposes, eg spam, character assassination"
heretical -- "refuse to adhere to any given set of dogmas; scripture is for reading and interpreting as the Spirit leads us"
forgiving -- "where repentance is, there is forgiveness"
healing -- "a place of recuperation"
hypocritical -- "Only kinda tongue-in-cheek...if I'm there it's a fact..."
connecting -- "where people can connect with one another, and in a different way with Father"
code of conduct -- "everyone agrees to a code of conduct in order to conduct themselves on the site...we don't invite ourselves into our neighbour's house, then run around breaking everything and hurting people, now do we? ;-) "

Any more you can throw in there?]]> onyx The FoyerMon, 21 Sep 2009 05:14:01 -0500 http://papashome.com/read.php?1,16,16#msg-16 What Papa's Home is All About (6 replies)http://papashome.com/read.php?1,16,16#msg-16Welcome!

This web site is a community of those that choose to be here, to support one another, in life with God. The name Papa's Home comes from the scripture John 14:2, "In My Papa's Home there are many rooms. If it were not so, I would have told you; for I am going away to prepare a place for you," which is a slight paraphrase of scripture, to give our Heavenly Father the informal, personal, familiar diminutive. We, the founders, are of the belief that our Heavenly Father would have us address Him in this way, just as His Son, Jesus did.

It is open to people of all faiths and creeds, for we are all His children, that makes us brothers and sisters.

We hope that you will join us in this community, in discussion, in friendship, in desire to know better our Papa.

Again, Welcome! Feel free to dive in and enjoy yourself, but do read and abide by the House Rules.
:)]]> forum_admin The FoyerSat, 31 Oct 2009 08:31:55 -0500